Perceived faults, unkind words, and dark deeds of the past too often spring to the forefront of my memory. I wish memory were more of a blessing and brought only the happiest times to mind. Can I remember and refocus on one kind act or positive aspect involving someone who haunts my past? Can I emphasize that kindness until my perception and my primary memories are the happiest ones? Can I change the focus of some memories by forgiving and remembering, rather than forgiving and forgetting?